Case & point #1
Sam Vaknin has a background in the Israeli military, is an Israeli citizen, most likely experienced infant circumcision
http://www.bloodstainednen.com for consequences on that, and obviously was diagnosed with extreme narcissistic personality disorder.
Case & point #2
Consider this shit list 7 things that terrify narcisissists to their core https://www.consciousreminder.com/2017/05/09/7-things-terrify-narcissists-core/ and the kind of person who would utilize these tactics to attack or hurt someone who she or he suspects or alleges is "a narcissist" & the red flags of someone complaining about "narcissistic abuse" refering to their adversary as "my narcissist" or "my nark" or "my narck" ? objectifying a person who dissappoints them as a possession or subhuman. Will the real narcissist please stand up?
Reading this
Reading this as a man trying to purge himself from all penchant of being "a narcissist" to a woman who is trying to avoid narcissistic abuse as described by this video while pretending the author has absolutely no narcissistic personality disorders of her own nor could possibly consider these defense tactics as her own brand of narcissism :
1. Abandonment and rejection.
lose all willpower to request or have standards of respect from anyone for my efforts, and don't apologize or make amends when she is on the rag & feels so offended by something I did so she threatens to dump me, or leaves me, or neglects me. (that would be "love bombing" after all)
2.
Being made fun of.
Say nothing critical about stupid behavior of others, but gracefully submit to all ridicule and belittlement to one's self and laugh it off as just a joke
3. Being disrespected.
go back to rule #1 and shove that up my ass as far as it will go .
4.
Being ignored.
Go back to rule #1 again and shove it up my ass some more. Abandon all hope or sense of need for her approval or attention or approval or attention from others, even if I offer something they might like in exchange for something I might like . Make like a wallflower and just wait to die unnoticed.
5. Exposure.
Gracefully and happily take all negative criticism at face value and blindly accept no one makes false accusations ever. Do nothing to defend one's self and plead guilty to all charges against you having unrealistic dreams, hopes, expectations or a greater vidsion sense of what's acceptably optimal and ideal. (She is the judge jury and executioner afterall to put you in your place as another piece of shit peon worker bee slae)
6. Loss of the trappings of youth and success
Food is food. Throw all routines of diet and exercise by the wayside. Enjoy growing old and ugly a.s.a.p. and don't dare doing anything too healthy to prolong youth. Act your age like all the peers around you and be prepared to kiss your ass and die motherfucker.
7. Death.
Go and gladly get Euthenized
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