A womans animus is the sum of cognitions she came to about men. A mans anima is the sum of cognitions he came to about women. (It might be necessary to define "cognitions", if so, please alert me to that.)
An animus possessed woman is the generally aggressively defensive woman who bitches about men all the time, who does not take even the possibility that what a man says might be right or of value into account, who thinks she can do it all (being a man/exerting the male qualities) better than they ever could, she is the classical ideological 3rd/4th wave feminist who despises men and does not want anything to be equal, she wants revenge and to dominate men (bc they are eternally bad, incompetent and the root of all problems). She lets her shadow-animus out whenever there is a chance for it (hence possessed), this is not being independent at all, it is being counterdependent. If she gets into sexual situations with men, she generally dominates, bc he cannot do that right either. This is the woman who gets angry when a man shows her agape and even more so, if a woman does disagree with her worldview.
An animus obsessed woman is needy towards men, she is the damsel in distress. She wants men - the white knights - to save her, she wants to be sexually desired for an unconsciously dishonest reason, that being to bind him to her, bc she "needs" him in a codependent way to feel somewhat "wholer". Her animus is oppressed, hence, she does not exert her male qualities and therefore is dependent on someone "doing all that" for her. This is the woman who tries to direct agape shown by a man towards eros relentlessly and then/or gets disinterested if he does not fall for that (what we talked about).
I did not write everything out i would have to say about all that, especially about the second one. I could go deeper into either of the two, i would have to associate into it more tho. (Glad to do it, it also came up recently in link with Stephen).
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